Being a caregiver is an enormous responsibility. Often, caregivers become so used to putting someone else first that they completely neglect their own wellbeing. But it doesn’t have to be that way. If you’re someone providing care for a loved one, Optimal Fitness has some advice for keeping well whilst staying on the task.

 

Time Management

 

The first thing to address, when striving for a healthier caregiving lifestyle, is time. You may find that, after a long day at work and all the life admin of the evenings/weekends, you don’t have much of it left to spend on yourself. A good way to change this is by using modern technology – apps such as Toggl or Clockify can be excellent tools for keeping track of where and how you spend your valuable hours, steering you on task, and preventing tangents.

 

Physical Health

 

It’s crucial not to underestimate the influence of physical well-being in shaping a positive and healthy mindset. Even when you don’t feel like it, you should try to exercise – by maintaining physical fitness, you’re likely to improve brain function, muscle strength, and energy levels. You can always start things off with a light run and work your way up, or take part in team sports as a way to meet new people. Remember, as long as you’re moving, you’re improving.

 

A good exercise routine should always be accompanied by a healthy diet. Transitioning from junk food to healthy fruit and veg is not always easy but is crucial for long-term well-being and happiness. If you’re struggling with the early stages of a healthy diet, it might be worth investing in a blender – you can condense down all of your vital nutrients and drink them in with just a few gulps (rather than chewing and savoring). It can even be fun experimenting with different recipes and flavors.

 

Social Life

 

Supportive friends and family are by far the most important ingredient for a healthy mindset. If you’re lucky enough to have them, you need to ensure that you’re spending time with them – that means outlining days on a weekend well in advance and protecting evenings during the week to be spent together, if not in person, then over the phone/video calls.

 

Pursuing Your Dreams 

 

Often, caregivers put their own dreams aside, whether that’s learning a new hobby or starting their own business – but it doesn’t have to be that way. In fact, by remembering to pursue your own goals, you actually increase your overall happiness, which in turn gives you more energy to face the day. So whether you’re thinking about taking a painting class, getting in shape, or enrolling in a versatile online program to gain information technology skills for your future business, don’t let anything hold you back!

 

If you’re at a stage in your life where you’re feeling isolated, it can be a good idea to get involved in local events or community activities, you stand a chance to expand your social circle and you can often help contribute towards meaningful, positive causes. There are plenty of ways to find these, such as through social media or online directories.

 

The life of a caregiver is never easy. Not only are you present as loved ones experience pain, but you’re also shouldering some of that burden yourself. But this role is also a necessary one – just remember to look after yourself as you’re looking after others.

 

Whether you’re looking to work out in a group or one-on-one with a highly experienced personal trainer, Optimal Fitness is here to help you build a happier, healthier you! Call 571.207.8627 to get started.

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by Julie Morris

Our precious gifts from above, our pumpkin munchkins, our little monsters! Whatever we call them, our kids tend to be our number one priorities. When it comes to their safety and their well-being, erring on the side of caution is typically the name of the game. Why? Well the maternal instinct kicks in and of course, we don’t wanna screw them up to be all weird and messed up like we are! Sound strategy, I know, but allow me to blow your mind! What if I told you that lifting weight could, in fact, be good for your kids?! Yes, I can hear the gasping from here, but hang in there and by the end of this, you may have your kid on the squat rack working a 5×5 all while filling out their consent form for their first powerlifting meet!

 

At some point we were all told “No kids should lift weights, it’ll stunt their growth!” That misconception all started with injuries brought upon by poor training in children. Believe it or not, proper programming and training can actually strengthen children’s bones while improving their body composition. That’s basically fancy talk for, your child that will tick all the healthy check boxes at the doctors office. So as a parent, isn’t it a good feeling to go into the doctor’s office and hear your kids are perfectly healthy?  You can go straight over to your PTA meeting and brag to all the other parents about how your kid is the fittest kid in their grade! Research shows that the only way that letting your kid lift weights makes you a bad parent is if you let that little turd out lift you! #parenting #winning 

That being said, we are not encouraging any training for a child that is not ready to take the weight room seriously. Goofing around in the gym is the best way to start your kid off on the wrong foot. Not only do you wanna avoid a negative first impression of the gym, you don’t want to start a kid in the gym until they are ready to take it seriously. Much like adults, every kid is different, but unlike adults, each kid is not gonna need to hit the gym right away. Simply put, they might just not be mentally ready for it and that’s okay!

 

Research has continued to support the idea that working out and lifting weights is great for kids, but where do you start? Well first off, no matter what, they need to be under constant, proper supervision to ensure that each rep, set and session is a safe one.

 

Now that our first rule of fight club is out of the way, we can help you get your kid on the right track! Make sure to emphasize the importance of warming up. If they’re not warmed up, you’re gonna break your kid, plain and simple. Unlike your brand new sunglasses, kids don’t come with receipts and you can’t exchange them for a new pair. Before lifting weights, try to perfect each movement that you plan on programming into their training at the base level first. So that means perfect their body weight squats, deadlifts, presses, pulls and everything in between. Once they’ve nailed that, start light with a weight they can crank out 10 to 15 reps safely with a couple reps in reserve. We try to do 3 to 4 sets, but feel out how they’re doing and adjust from there.

I wouldn’t encourage training going anywhere over an hour. Kids will lose focus after about 2 to 3 minutes per year of age. To put that into perspective, a 10 year old has about 20 minutes of focus in them. This is not the time to over-complicate things so keep it simple and somewhat short. Don’t overload them with information, if they’re not getting the squat mechanics in the first session, that’s okay, move onto the next exercise and build on it next session! After the workout is done, much like the warm-up, STRETCH! The thing we neglect now doesn’t have to be passed down from generation to generation. Your kid may move like a slinky now, but when they’re not frail and fragile like us at our age, they’ll thank you for making them stretch.

 

Still here? I hope you’ve got more of an attention span of your 10 year old because this has become quite the read. Don’t worry, we’re gonna wrap things up here with a couple exercise suggestions on where to get started with that sweet, precious angel of yours! The movements you’ll want to prioritize for your kid are gonna be much like yours. 

• Lower body pushing movement (We recommend Squats)

• Lower body pulling movement (We recommend Deadlifts to also master the Hip Hinge)

• Upper body Pushing movement (We recommend Dumbbell Bench Press)

• Upper body Pulling Movement (We recommend Standing Rows)

• Rotational Movement (We recommend Medicine Ball Rotational Toss)

• Split Stance (We recommend Lunges)

• Core/Bracing (We recommend Planks)

• Jumping and Landing (We recommend Broad Jumps)

Those seven exercises are great places to start for any program, but your kid is gonna be kicking so much butt that they’ll be kicking in the NFL every Sunday in no time! As they master those movements, you can mix and match while finding out what type of training is best for your little gym demon. Like we said before, each kid is different so find out what they like the most and after safety, the second most important thing is making sure they’re having fun to ensure a happy and healthy lifelong relationship with fitness. Plus, you gotta make sure your kids are in tip top shape to take care of us one day! They’ll owe us for making them super shredded kids, it’s their turn to change our diapers!